About the Human Givens
So what is (or are) the 'Human Givens'? As human beings we have physical requirements such as the need for air to breathe; for water to drink; for nutritious food, and sufficient of the right quality sleep. However, these physical needs are intimately bound up with our emotional needs; Human Givens-based therapy derives its name from these emotional needs and the resources we have within us that enable these emotional needs to be met. The Human Givens approach is holistic, evidence-based, fast and effective. It is a broad 'organising idea' that encompasses all effective approaches to helping people (for further information, see www.humangivens.com).
When emotional needs are not being met, or when our resources are used incorrectly, we suffer considerable distress. And so do those around us.
Human givens therapy focuses on helping clients identify unmet emotional needs and empowering them to meet these needs by activating their own natural resources in new ways. To do this, only up-to-date, proven, brief solution-oriented techniques are used in order to resolve distress as quickly as possible and in ways which are long-lasting.
- Long-term memory, which enables us to develop new patterns of knowledge
- The ability to build rapport, empathise and connect with others
- Curiosity and imagination, which enables us to focus our attention away from our emotions and problem-solve more creatively and objectively
- A rational mind that can notice, identify and (to some extent) control our emotional responses
- An ability to understand the world through metaphor - 'pattern matching'
- An 'observing self' - that part of us that can step back, be more objective and recognise itself as a unique centre of awareness
- A brain that dreams to maintain the integrity of our instinct-driven behaviour
- Security - a stable, safe environment
- Attention - to both give and receive it
- A sense of autonomy (the ability to make choices) and control
- Emotional connection to others
- Being part of a wider community
- Friendship, fun, intimacy
- Status - recognition amongst peers and within social groups
- Self esteem - achievement
- Meaning and purpose - which comes from being 'stretched' and appropriately challenged in our lives
